About me
My name is Natascha Maas, mother of four adult children, and I live in Haarlem. I am a registered Psychosocial Therapist, and since 2008, I have been working in my own practice, Bloei!
I know what it feels like to be unable to face reality, without even being aware of it. You notice it mainly because you don’t feel happy with yourself, your relationship, or your work. It’s like living on autopilot. For me, this manifested as making decisions with my head instead of my heart. I had built walls around myself for self-protection. I was afraid to be vulnerable.
Eventually, I couldn’t keep it up and sought therapy. I discovered that I had taken on a role within my family of origin to avoid feeling the disappointments of my childhood. By recognizing this and understanding how my family background had shaped me, I was able to remove blocks and break through patterns. I became more connected to my emotions and desires. I discovered who I truly am.
This felt so liberating—to finally be able to be my authentic self. My world changed because I changed! And I wish this for everyone.
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It is my passion to guide people toward a life where they can be happy with themselves and with a loving partner. By (gently) breaking through emotional blocks and old patterns, you reconnect with your true self. Freeing yourself from these constraints enables you to discover your passions and desires, allowing you to live authentically.
When you work on yourself, you not only give yourself a valuable gift but also benefit the next generation. Unconsciously, much is passed down from previous generations to future ones—unless you become aware of it and break the cycle.
My clients are motivated for self-development, with an open perspective on the world. I find them eager to learn and willing to make meaningful changes. That brings me joy!
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In My Free Time
In my free time, I enjoy spending time with my children, savoring good food, walking, being in nature, having inspiring encounters, exercising, listening to music, and traveling (especially long-distance trips). I love listening to podcasts and dancing to deep house/techno music. I have a youthful spirit and consider myself open-minded. My friends come from a wide range of ages, which I find enriching! Having genuine connections with others is essential to me. Additionally, I believe it's important for everyone to be able to be themselves.
Inspiration from Ancient Egypt
Recently, the ancient wisdom of Egypt has inspired and ignited my passion. A week of swimming with wild dolphins at Sataya Reef touched my heart, as did visiting the healing temple in Abydos. These experiences have opened my heart to the types of trips I want to organize for my clients. As a result, I will be delving deeper into Egypt and exploring what I can offer to help enhance the connection with your own core during a journey to Egypt.
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In 2012, I completed the four-year post-HBO program in Integrative Psychotherapy at the Academy for Psychotherapy in Amsterdam. In 2021, I obtained my PSBK diploma, meeting the PLATO standard, which officially qualifies me as a registered psychosocial therapist.
Additionally, I have completed various courses and training programs, including a multi-day masterclass by Maarten Oversier on transgenerational trauma transfer, basic EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), and training in systemic and contextual work with "A Language of Their Own" at Kontekst Gooisemeren. At the Aumm Institute, I attended several multi-day workshops in 2021 and 2022 focusing on the impact of trauma on relationships and sexuality.
At the beginning of 2023, I completed the multi-day training "Family Constellations on the Table" with Caroline Franssen. This method helps you find your rightful place within your family of origin and return any burdens you may have unconsciously carried from previous generations. This approach is particularly suitable for addressing unresolved grief, such as from miscarriages, abortions, or siblings who passed away at a young age. It fosters a healthier connection with yourself by placing you in the appropriate position in your family line, leading to greater inner peace and autonomy.
In 2023/2024, I completed the first year of the Master’s program in Contextual Approach to Counseling at CHE. This program emphasizes the impact of the family of origin on individual well-being and romantic relationships. Contextual therapy is based on the principle that the quality of relationships is determined by a balance of fair care for one another; giving and receiving must be in harmony (Boszomenyi-Nagy & Krasner, 1986). The program also focuses on the influence of previous generations and care for future generations.
I have also delved into the topic of adult Replacement Children (also known as "Elvis Children"). To better support this group, I completed a training course with Ard Nieuwenbroek on counseling Replacement Children.
To deepen my understanding of trauma that can originate as early as the womb, I will attend a four-day training in December 2024 titled "The Human Being as an Embryo," taught by Dr. Jaap van der Wal, an anatomist-embryologist who bridges science and spirituality.
In April 2025, I will start with a training program in Ancient Egyptian Healing with Hathor Heart Healing Centre in Abydos, Egypt.
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